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What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?

13.06.2025 15:07

What are some effective ways to cope with loss and grief?

I took them with me, because she was cremated. I kept them in a little round plastic container. After more than a year of her death, she was with me until my stupid family took them away from me because Now that I had her in a proper way, now that I came to Arizona the think they have the right . I'm sure she was happy me having her, her and me were close but far from each other even though she was 27 and me 38 I was not there most of her teenage years, we still were close, we video chat a lot . She was the one I use to call for advice . And now that I have so many problems, in need of talking to her , she's not there. We stayed away from the family. Our family is fucked up. That's why we are homeless . That's why I also opened a go fund me

Damn, that one is hard, tell me about it. I my self had a 27 year old sister and on june, 08, 2023 she was killed in a horrific way, while she was sleeping in the Beard Brook Park in Modesto CA. She got run over by a lawnmower tractor, and my dad went to the crime scene and was taking video when he started finding peaces of her scattered everywhere. Since I was in San Jose, and mom and siblings were in Arizona, we met up the search begin. Wé , or I was not gonna leave her there. I was or am so resented with the fucken police, how they handle all the crime . How could they just leave big pieces of her everywhere. How I smelled decomposed flesh and moved around dirt and found it. We found a lot . Every body of the family gave up in the search, because the funeral house didn't want to take them no more. Mom and siblings found their last pieces of skull and a piece of her shredded pants, before giving up. I couldn't give up, we put a cross on the scene and my family left those pieces there, at the cross. Well I also refused at leaving those pieces of my sister there, for a dog or a cat come and eat them, hell No, never. I didn't give up and tried to find her all. I found chunks of her hair, brain tissue, and bones, of maybe forehead or eye. And her beautiful teeth.

I'm not trying to promote it because nobody cares anyways I think I will give up on it. Well this is how u cope with a lost. Talking about it, letting it out, and 😭 😭 😭 😭 cry until you feel better releasing all that pain and anger inside. Because in the end, they called it a tragic accident. Google it.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.